False allegations have lately become a favorite weapon for estranged couples to vent their spleen on one another. After a separation, often couples try to exact revenge on their respective spouses by playing a mutual blame game where they hurl allegations at each other. Now these can be extremely varied, running from homosexuality to torture and alcoholism. At one level, it can be said that anger and bitterness is justified. But, when people start using their loved pones as pawns in their own affairs, it is completely unforgivable. No amount of anger or bitterness can justify the exploitation of your own loved ones who have had nothing to do with your marital failures. As it is, divorce proceedings are an ordeal for all of those who are involved, especially the children if any.
Mothers and fathers do not hesitate to make their children the centerpieces of such dirty mind games that they play against each other. To get what things that they want, like custody for example, mothers fling false allegations of child sexual abuse at the fathers. To counter it, men often come up with allegations of infidelity and the like. The worst thing about false allegations is, it is very difficult to prove them either wrong or right. The process of authenticating such claims often takes months and often years of legal procedure.
This trend of false allegations was created when, in 1974, the Mondale Act or the Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) was passed in America to protect the children from sexual abuse. Though this Act was well intentioned from all aspects, it had a negative effect insofar as divorce legislation is concerned. This Act began to be exploited as a site for hurling false allegations against each other. Of course, this does not imply that all accusations which respective spouses level at each other during divorce proceedings usually turn out to be false. It's just that often; abuses are hurled at each other to deliberately malign the image and the social standing of the spouse. Unfortunately, the women often take advantage of the sympathy usually accorded to women in such cases, to tarnish the image of the fathers who often happen to be completely innocent of the crimes they are accused of.
Instead, it is definitely true though a lot of these accusations do hold ground; a lot of them are made for the sake of it. Unfortunately, the fathers have to bear the bigger brunt in these cases. Using the maternal complex to win over juries, mothers have often made false allegations against the fathers, concerning alcoholism, sexual and physical abuse and so on. Under therefore mentioned Act, CPS workers are entrusted with the task of evaluating and proving such claims, and often professional pressure and fear of erroneous consequences have led them to pass biased decisions.
Two syndromes at work in the system of false allegations is PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) and Sexual Allegations In Divorce (SAID). In the former, one parent tries to deliberately or at times unintentionally alienate a child from the other parent. The latter form of false allegations involves the leveling of sexual allegations against the parent, usually the father. Sadly, men have to face the music more than women do in such cases. Since sexual crime is regarded as a heinous act, fathers are usually subject to extreme social ostracisation. - 22783
Mothers and fathers do not hesitate to make their children the centerpieces of such dirty mind games that they play against each other. To get what things that they want, like custody for example, mothers fling false allegations of child sexual abuse at the fathers. To counter it, men often come up with allegations of infidelity and the like. The worst thing about false allegations is, it is very difficult to prove them either wrong or right. The process of authenticating such claims often takes months and often years of legal procedure.
This trend of false allegations was created when, in 1974, the Mondale Act or the Child Abuse Prevention and Treatment Act (CAPTA) was passed in America to protect the children from sexual abuse. Though this Act was well intentioned from all aspects, it had a negative effect insofar as divorce legislation is concerned. This Act began to be exploited as a site for hurling false allegations against each other. Of course, this does not imply that all accusations which respective spouses level at each other during divorce proceedings usually turn out to be false. It's just that often; abuses are hurled at each other to deliberately malign the image and the social standing of the spouse. Unfortunately, the women often take advantage of the sympathy usually accorded to women in such cases, to tarnish the image of the fathers who often happen to be completely innocent of the crimes they are accused of.
Instead, it is definitely true though a lot of these accusations do hold ground; a lot of them are made for the sake of it. Unfortunately, the fathers have to bear the bigger brunt in these cases. Using the maternal complex to win over juries, mothers have often made false allegations against the fathers, concerning alcoholism, sexual and physical abuse and so on. Under therefore mentioned Act, CPS workers are entrusted with the task of evaluating and proving such claims, and often professional pressure and fear of erroneous consequences have led them to pass biased decisions.
Two syndromes at work in the system of false allegations is PAS (Parental Alienation Syndrome) and Sexual Allegations In Divorce (SAID). In the former, one parent tries to deliberately or at times unintentionally alienate a child from the other parent. The latter form of false allegations involves the leveling of sexual allegations against the parent, usually the father. Sadly, men have to face the music more than women do in such cases. Since sexual crime is regarded as a heinous act, fathers are usually subject to extreme social ostracisation. - 22783
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Dennis Gac represents Father Rights Organization which helps fathers to regain their children's back into their custody. If you wish to know more about father rights just visit the website http://www.fathershelphotonline.com and more information about father rights.
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